This is a faith based relationship coaching program for couples and ministry leaders who keep replaying the same fight and want calm, trust, and a plan that actually works.

Fewer blowups in 60 days.

Repair fights in minutes.

Without therapy marathons or rehashing old wounds, even if one of you shuts down.

Introducing

True Tether Covenant Blueprint™

A faith-rooted relationship system for singles, premarital, married, and ministry leaders.

Build safety, a shared language, and simple weekly rhythms so fights shrink, repairs get faster,

and trust grows again in 60 days.


Choose your path: one-to-one, group, online academy, or 1 to 3 day intensives.

Imagine This...

First calm talk in 72 hours. No more shouting matches.

Fights end in minutes, not the next day.

50% fewer blowups by Day 30. Rooms feel safe again.

A simple weekly rhythm is locked in: check-in, date night, money talk, prayer.

Clear words for hard moments. Say-this-not-that scripts on deck.

Trust starts to rebuild with tiny daily wins. Micro promises kept.

By Day 60: the home vibe is calm, honest, hopeful.

By Day 90: a Renewal Plan is in place so peace sticks around forever.

This is what True Tether Covenant Blueprint™ was made for.

This has never existed before,

And it's going to give you exactly what you've been looking for in your relationship.

The Old Way

(What Keeps Breaking Peace)

❌ The same fight on repeat. New day, same blowup.


❌ Shutdowns, silent treatment, and walking on eggshells.


❌ Therapy marathons that rehash wounds but change nothing.


❌ Vague “be better” talks with no plan, no timer, no tools.


❌ Money talks that spiral into blame, guilt, or avoidance.

The New Way

(How True Tether Flips the Script)

✅ The 5 Minute Reset: from rupture to repair fast.


✅ Say-this-not-that scripts so hard talks stay calm and clear.


✅ Weekly rhythm kit: check-in, date night, prayer, money map.


✅ A simple Communication Covenant you both can keep.


✅ Trust Ladder: tiny daily wins that stack into safety in 60 days.

How It Works:

Step 1:

Map the Pattern

Spot the fight loop fast. Set simple rules for safety. Pick a shared language so hard talks don’t explode.

Step 2:

Install the 5 Minute Reset

Use a timer. Use say-this-not-that scripts. Lock in a weekly rhythm: check-in, date night, prayer, money map. Tiny moves, big peace.

Step 3:

Make It Stick

Climb the Trust Ladder with small daily wins. Follow a clear Renewal Plan so calm lasts past the honeymoon week.

More peace.

More trust.

Less drama.

Everything You Need In One Place

Case Study 1: Marriage Rebuild (12 weeks)

Before: weekly blowups, silent weekends, “sorry” loops. No rules. Boundaries felt like threats.


After:

✅ Blowups down about 70 percent (tracked in weekly check-ins)

✅ Time-to-repair dropped from next day to under 30 minutes using the 5 Minute Reset

✅ Trust Ladder wins: micro-promises kept 26 of 30 days

✅ Rhythms on calendar: weekly date night and a 30-minute money meeting
Client line: “We still disagree, but we don’t destroy each other doing it.”

Case Study 2: Leader Couple Reconnect (Mastermind + 1:1, 10 weeks)

Before: strong in public, tense at home. PR voice at the table. Avoided money talks.


After:

✅ Friendship rituals 3 times a week

✅ Clear Communication Covenant for hard talks

✅ Tone shift reported as “calmer, honest, hopeful”
Client line: “We stopped doing PR at home and started doing repair.”

What gets measured

✅ Fewer blowups per week

✅ Time-to-repair in minutes, not days

✅ Rhythm check: did the weekly check-in, date night, prayer, and money map happen?

✅ Trust Ladder: tiny daily wins that stack into safety

Testimonials

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Time-to-repair went from next day to under 30 minutes. We still disagree, but we don’t destroy each other doing it.”

Marriage | 12-Week Track
★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Stopped auditioning. Started discerning. Set three boundaries without fear. Dating finally feels sane.”

Singles | 8-Week Track
★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Left with a playbook, not just ‘compatibility.’ Our money meeting actually works.”

Premarital | 6-Week Track

Our Guarantee/Promise

No-Shame, Safety-First Promise - no weaponizing Scripture; no pressure to stay in unsafe dynamics.

Clarity Promise - you leave each session with specific tools and next steps; if not, written clarity is sent.

Fit & Integrity Promise - after the first live cohort session, you have 72 hours to request a transfer or credit; for 1:1, you can switch coaches or credit that session.

Refunds - tuition refundable up to 7 days before start; deposits and instant downloads are non-refundable.

Meet Drs. Alton & Nicckay

We didn’t set out to build a program. We wanted the blowups to stop.

We tried what you’ve tried.

  • Books and binge notes. Smart highlights. But at 9:47 p.m. when it got tense, we still had no words that worked.

  • More prayer, less honesty. We prayed hard but spoke soft. Real issues hid behind churchy words. Nothing changed.

  • The apology loop. I’m sorry. Me too. Two kind hearts. Zero repair plan. By Thursday, same argument, new details.

  • Date night on the calendar. No safety in the room. One side-eye and the night crashed. We needed skills, not reservations.

  • Silence as a strategy. Walking on eggshells looked holy. It wasn’t peace. It was distance dressed up as maturity.

That’s when we got ruthless about what actually moves the needle.

We built a simple, faith-rooted system so nobody has to guess alone. Safety first. Plain language. Weekly rhythms you can keep. A timer for hot moments. Clear scripts. Tiny daily wins that stack into trust.

We call it True Tether.

It gave us handles for hard stuff. It gave our couples handles too. The rooms got calmer. Time to repair dropped from hours to minutes. The home vibe turned honest and hopeful.

We built it for the spouse who is scared to speak because everything explodes. For the fiancé who loves Jesus but can’t name a single conflict rule. For the leader who can quote Scripture but needs one sentence that won’t trigger defense at home. For the single who keeps abandoning themselves to be chosen.

If you’ve tried all the things and still feel stuck, it’s not because you’re weak or faithless. No one handed you the right handles.

True Tether is those handles. Safety. Language. Rhythm. We’ll walk with you until covenant is not just a belief. It is your daily life.

Tired of Feeling This Way?

No more replaying the same fight in a new week.

Say goodbye to walking on eggshells and silent treatment.

Don’t have to guess if that red flag is a fix or a trap.

No more boundary guilt. The line is clear and you can hold it.

Say goodbye to date nights that crash by 8 p.m.

Don’t have to fake peace with churchy words while nothing changes.

No more money talks that spiral into blame or shutdown.

Say goodbye to kids watching the blowups and copying them.

Don’t have to carry it alone behind a leader smile.

Imagine if You Waited...

A few months from now, you’ll either be eating dinner in peace...

or still timing every sentence to dodge landmines.

You’ll either end fights in minutes


or still sleep back-to-back pretending it’s fine.

You’ll either lock in a simple weekly rhythm


or keep skipping date night because it turns into a scorecard.

You’ll either feel safe saying the hard thing


or keep translating your heart into silence.

You’ll either see your kids breathe easier


or hear doors slam and little feet copy the blowups.

If time is precious, why burn another year guessing


when a simple plan can get you there faster and with less pain?


Most couples never got taught the tiny move that flips a fight into repair.


We teach it in week one.

FAQ

What if my spouse will not join? Can this still work?

Yes. Start solo. One calm person can change the dance.

You get say-this-not-that scripts, a simple Reset, and clear boundaries.

When the vibe shifts, many partners choose to join.

If the relationship is unsafe, this is not the right container. Choose safety first. We will never pressure you to stay in harm.

Is this therapy? Will you preach at us?

This is coaching, not therapy or counseling.

Therapy helps process the past. Coaching installs new skills fast.

Faith-rooted, trauma-aware, no shame. Scripture is used for comfort, not control.

Many couples do both. Coaching gives the tools you use between therapy sessions.

How fast will we see change, and what is the time ask?

You start in week one.

Week 1, you learn the 5 Minute Reset.

Week 2, you lock in a simple weekly rhythm.

Expect one live session a week or a 1 to 3 day intensive, plus 15 minutes a day for tiny wins.

Many report the first calm talk within 72 hours, faster repairs by week two, and fewer blowups by Day 30. Results vary by participation.

Not a fit after the first live session? Tell us within 72 hours and we will transfer or credit. Refunds are available up to 7 days before start. Deposits and instant downloads are non-refundable.